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Building
Character
Character Qualities
Each month, the Character
Council will highlight one of the qualities on these pages in greater
detail. The listings as they appear here are intended to give you
a brief look at each trait.
After we name and briefly
define each character quality, we'll list "actions to practice."
These actions will help you get in the spirit of the quality by
providing you with several concrete methods for putting the quality
definition into action. Next, we tell you the month and year the
quality will be highlighted. Click here
to see the chronological calendar.
Character Qualities
10-21
Decisiveness
Deference
Dependability
Determination
Diligence
Discernment
Discretion
Endurance
Enthusiasm
Faith
Flexibility
Forgiveness
Decisiveness
"The ability to recognize key factors and finalize difficult decisions."
Action Steps:
- Not look back
- Do what I say
- Make the right decision
and stick to it
- Look at things from
more than one point of view before making up my mind
- Not give in to peer
pressure
Top
Deference
"Limiting my freedom so I do not offend the tastes of those around
me."
Action Steps:
- Notice those around
me
- Respect the feelings
of others
- Not use offensive
language
- Not play loud music
in public
- Be careful how I dress
Top
Dependability
"Fulfilling what I consented to do, even if it means unexpected
sacrifice."
Action Steps:
- Keep my word
- Be careful what I
promise
- Correct my mistakes
- Pull my share of the
load
- Not have a bad attitude
Top
Determination
"Purposing to accomplish right goals at the right time, regardless
of the opposition."
Action Steps:
- Set goals
- Make sure my goals
are right
- Ignore distractions
- Not be discouraged
by others
- Face problems head-on
Top
Diligence
"Investing my time and energy to complete each task assigned to
me."
Action Steps:
- Finish my projects
- Do a job right
- Follow instructions
- Concentrate on my
work
- Not be lazy
Top
Discernment
"Understanding the deeper reasons why things happen."
Action Steps:
- Ask questions
- Not judge hastily
- Learn from experience
- Not repeat mistakes
- Trace problems to
their causes
Top
Discretion
"Recognizing and avoiding words, actions and attitudes that could
bring undesirable consequences."
Action Steps:
- Choose my words carefully
- Practice good manners
- Listen to criticism
- Not make fun of others
- Turn down any invitation
to do wrong
Top
Endurance
"The inward strength to withstand stress and do my best."
Action Steps:
- Not be a "quitter"
- Accept both instruction
and correction
- Not waste my time,
energy and talent on meaningless pursuits
- Bend instead of break
- Put my whole heart
into everything I do
Top
Enthusiasm
"Expressing joy in each task as I give it my best effort."
Action Steps:
- Be an energy-giver
to others
- Smile
- Treat every job as
important
- Put my whole heart
into what I do
- Not be discouraged
by failure
Top
Faith
"Confidence that actions rooted in good character will yield the
best outcome, even when I cannot see how."
Action Steps:
- Expect the best
- Make right choices
based on principles of character rather than whims of circumstance
- Believe the truth
and reject a lie
- Not take things for
granted
- Trust those who have
proven character
Top
Flexibility
"Willingness to change plans or ideas according to the direction
of my authorities."
Action Steps:
- Not get upset when
plans change
- Respect the decisions
of my authorities
- Not be stubborn
- Look for good in changes
- Not compromise what
is right
Top
Forgiveness
"Clearing the record of those who have wronged me and not holding
a grudge."
Action Steps:
- Be quick to forgive
- Not cover up my own
wrongs but will be quick to ask forgiveness
- Not seek revenge
- Respond kindly to
those who hurt me
- Not take up offenses
for others
Top
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material is copyright © 2008 by the Character Council of Greater
Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky, unless otherwise noted.
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