Raising Godly Children with Authenticity
Meet Kathie
Kathie is the mother of eight adult children and has been a homeschooling mom for 31 years. Through her speaking and writing, her heart is to encourage and equip parents to be intentional in raising children with godly character and a deep love for the Lord. She shares practical wisdom, tips, and encouragement drawn from her 36 years of parenting and decades of homeschooling. On her site and blog, Kathie offers insights the Lord has taught her, along with helpful resources to guide parents in focusing not only on academics, but also on building strong relationships, nurturing character, and pointing their children to God.
Raising Godly Children With Authenticity
Kathie Morrissey – The Character Corner
Authenticity means doing what is right with transparent motives, or in one word, sincerity.
As parents, one of the best gifts that we can give to our kids is living a life that models a genuine faith. We teach them that Christianity isn’t about appearances, but about a real, personal relationship with God when we admit mistakes, ask for forgiveness, and live out His Word daily.
Our children need to understand that authenticity is choosing to do the right thing even when no one is watching. It’s easy for kids to act right or good when they know they’ll get a reward or be praised. However, sincerity comes from a heart that wants to do right. Reminding our kids of Colossians 3:23 —that whatever they do should be done for the Lord —helps them move their focus from pleasing people to honoring God.
A fun activity to help your kids practice authenticity is the Secret Service Challenge. Encourage your kids to do one kind deed each day in secret, not telling anyone. At the end of the week, ask them how it felt to serve quietly, knowing only God saw it. Then read Matthew 6:4 to them, and remind them that God sees what is done in secret and rewards it.
In closing, remember that authenticity develops in homes where truth is valued. When children feel it is safe to admit their struggles or mistakes with no fear of a harsh response, they are more likely to embrace honesty and sincerity. When we respond with grace and gentle correction, we reflect God’s heart to our kids, encouraging them to walk in truth.